Life with the Smith's in Newport News

We MOVED!!!

2010-07-07T06:12:00.000-07:00

Wow-- a lot has been going on since our last post in April. Josh and I closed on our new house on April 23, 2010. What an exciting and scary day! The house we purchased had a lot of work that needed to be done. (really things that we wanted to do) So we closed on our new house and Josh got straight to work. I actually left for almost a week for a conference in Atlanta, GA that I was scheduled to attend for work. Crazy timing but God's perfect timing.

For about a month and a half Josh and a bunch of our AMAZING friends and family members worked so HARD on the house to get it ready for us to move into. Josh did projects I think he only dreamed about doing, for example: sanding and staining our hardwood floors, enlarging a closest, drywall work, electrical work, and so much more!! Thanks to my wonderful parents, their continued patience with us allowing us the time to work on the house verses having to move out right away was such a huge help. Without their generosity we wouldn't have made it! Even Josh's parents were put to work while they were out on their vacation. They did so much in such a short period of time.... so much support!!

(Josh working on our closet)

(Our Den--- imagine brown shag carpet and wood paneling walls)

(Debbie/Josh's Mom working hard on transforming the Den)

(Don/Josh's Dad working on sanding the floors- in the babies room)

So, the second weekend of June we rented a U-haul, borrowed my brother-n-law's truck and our friends and loaded up and headed out to our new home. We had so many hands and backs helping us move..... it in fact was an emotional day and a reminder of God's love and grace. He has provided us with such true and loving friends and family members that will always leave an impact on our lives. We have been so blessed!

It has now been almost a month since we moved in and the boxes are still shoved in corners. But, we have done SO MUCH! Josh continues to work on projects daily and I am slowly figuring out where to put things as well as taking care of Payton who is becoming more and more active. I love the feel of this house..... it really is starting to feel like home. We have met several neighbors and are excited for new friendships. Saying goodbye to Tuckahoe has been hard as we continue to go there weekly to clean, etc. to get it ready for my parents, but seeing that we are surrounded by great people in our new home is SUCH a comfort.

I hope to post more pictures of our new home soon, but I am honestly waiting til I get things a little bit more under control. HA! Until then I post a few... :)

12 Wedgewood Drive North!

Our bedroom- work in progress!

New sofa in our new Den!!

Our Den!!

Babies room- currently Payton's room

My sister, Kim and her kiddos came to see the new place (before we moved in)

On another note, we have some more exciting news! Payton is going to be a big sister in December! Josh and I are expecting our second child December 19th!! I am in my 16th week and feeling good. We are very excited to welcome another baby into our lives... the timing of it all has been some what funny as poor Josh was unable to get a lot of help from me in the stress months of preparing and moving. Some may think I planned it that way, but it honestly was hard feeling helpless at times. Regardless, we have been blessed with another baby. We are praying for continued good health and can't wait to find out in a couple weeks for sure what we are having.... PINK or BLUE???

My handsome hubby on his Birthday! In our new kitchen!

Payton loves her new playroom/DEN! :)

Well I am off to try and clean and unpack..... our new adventure as begun!!

A new chapter approaches...

2010-04-09T07:59:00.000-07:00

TUCKAHOE DRIVE..... thank you for some great memories!

(first month at Tuckahoe, trying to fix the yard)

As I finally have time to update our blog, it has started to sink in that a new chapter is approaching for the Smith family on Tuckahoe Drive. We have been blessed to live on Tuckahoe Drive since August 2005. Five years later, we are moving! We have loved this home and I know that it will be bitter sweet leaving. This home carries so many great memories!

(the night Josh asked me to marry him!)

First- Josh and I were newlyweds in this home. Josh moved in August 2005 and began his study's at Christopher Newport University. I joined him in October of the same year after we were married. The first couple years of our marriage took place in this home, jobs at Lowes, CNU and the adventures of experiencing living on our own for the first time. Those couple of years will always be so precious.

(eight months pregnant, relaxing with Max (left) and Toby (right))

Secondly- Payton was yes, conceived in this home. (laughing as I type this) I found out I was pregnant one evening in March 2008 that we would be expecting our first bundle of joy that winter. The shock of the reality of things to come was faced in this home. Josh had just started working at Northrop Grumman and I had finally reached a position at CNU that I loved in the Career Development department. Life was going to change in a big way... all while living in this home.

Thirdly- Payton was brought home to this house in December 2008 (though born on November 30th). My mother had a sign (homemade) in the front yard as we returned from the hospital. Our doggies sat in the window anticipating Payton's arrival as well as mine. I will always tear up thinking about the first year of Payton's life in this home. Her first time sitting up, smiling, crawling, walking... her first BIRTHDAY party, first Christmas and so much more. Knowing that Payton will more than likely never remember those moments in this house will be sad for me but I know a part of life. I will miss being reminded of those moments as I walk through this home for just a month or so longer.

from daddy's garden

birthday celebration

Lastly- I will miss our Tuckahoe Homegroup meetings on Wednesday evenings. For a couple years now we have hosted bible study in this home. We have made amazing friends (which are not going away) and have created a strong community. I will miss having these folks over weekly and growing together through our Lord and Savior. Though I know some of the people that attend on Wednesday evenings will join us at our new home, things will not be the same. Adjustment for us will be needed--- still doesn't change the wonderful memories or girls nights, ROCK BAND night, game nights, Murder Mystery Dinner parties and so much more. Our love for our Tuckahoe family will go on, but change is inevitable.

So some of you may be wondering, WHERE ARE YOU MOVING? If all goes well, we are scheduled to close on our new home April 23, 2010. Only a couple weeks away and I have yet to pack ANYTHING. HA! I think I am in denial but at the same time I am very excited. We will be moving across town to a home closer to church on Wedgewood Drive! (close to Big Bethel Reservoir) More info on our new home to come soon once we close! However, the idea of our FIRST home that we will own is exciting and scary all at the same time. We continue to pray to the ONE in control as we approach closing. From the beginning we have felt His peace over this home. We are so thankful that so far everything has run smoothly. We'll see what the future holds but we are thankful we know WHO holds the future.

As for our Tuckahoe good byes.... We will miss our wonderful neighbors that have been such a big part of our lives. The Wilsons (now in Italy), the Lassons, Joe and Kathy, and Fran, Ben and Katarina-- sweet neighbors we will always hold dear in our hearts. We plan to keep in touch with them and only pray that our new neighbors will be just as amazing! Time will only tell...

Until our next post, please be praying for us as we prepare for our BIG MOVE. Tuckahoe Sundays is coming to an end.... but Wedgewood Wednesdays will bring new adventures! (cheesy I know.. :) )

We would also like to extend a HUGE thank you to my parents who have blessed us beyond what any parent should, by allowing us to stay in the Tuckahoe home for five years. We love you guys! May God bless you two with continued blessings for your loving kindness.

----------------------- Prayer Needs and upcoming events ------------------------

-My brother-n-law, David is home safely for two weeks of R&R from Afghanistan. Please keep Priscilla (my sister) and their children, lil'D, Izzy and Solomon in your prayers as they spend such a short period of time together before he heads back for six more months.

-Pray for my sister Kimberly and her husband Tony as they began the adoption process for a boy/their hopeful new son, Joshua from Ethiopia. Joshua will be joining three sisters and one brother my sister and brother-in-law adopted from the Ukraine this time last year. God is so good and I can not wait for another nephew!

-Keep my sister Jessica and her husband, Rick in your prayers as they FINALLY will be together in May. Jessica will be leaving Hawaii and will be joining Rick at Ft. Drum, NY. They are scheduled to leave for Afghanistan in September this year for a 12 month tour. Great honeymoon, right? Please lift them up!

-Josh's sister and brother-in-law are moving to a new home this weekend. Please keep them in your prayers as they move to a new home with their five children (sixth one is on the way in August!). May this move be as stress free as possible!

Thank you for your prayers!

Chicken Fridays and Salad Sundays....

2010-02-15T12:33:00.000-08:00

THE SMITHS

Winter 2009-2010

(We actually got about 6.5 inches of snow!!! We loved it!)

Some of you may be wondering if we have kept up with our pizza Fridays and ice cream Sundays... well since Josh and I both have been trying to slim down we have started eating a little differently. As much as we love pizza and ice cream, we have had to cut back. Payton on the other hand loves pizza and of course ice cream!

Payton giving me her WILD woman face!

Payton loving on her rocking dog.... she loves to give him kisses too!

Payton is almost 15 months old!! She is walking, pretending to read, blowing and giving kisses, waving, and growing up so fast! She has a mouth full of teeth and an appetite that enables her to use them. Josh and I have been enjoying this time with her as she is walking and smiling more and more. She however has been fighting ear infections off and on since September leading to her BIG EVENT this Friday...... surgery for TUBES!!

Payton's favorite, Ernie!!

I am extremely hopeful that the tubes will help and that Payton will be back to her old herself. No one likes to see their little one sick, cranky, hurting, or upset. She as good days and bad days..... praying the surgery will be a success. Please keep her in your prayers.

Some of you may know that I have applied to be on a short term missions trip with our church this summer. I am in the beginning stages of preparing to go to Brussels July 2010 to work with the program "Serve the City" with a missionary our church supports, Carlton Deal. I am excited to be joining several team members that have participated on this missions trip in the past and with some that have not. Josh and I's good friends, Chris and Suzy Epperley will also be attending. I am so looking forward to what God has in store for us.

Christmas 2009- spent a wonderful Christmas in Stafford with family!

With the summer trip approaching, I am nervous about leaving little Payton for almost two weeks. Josh will be able to watch her for a few days on his own and then my mom will come down from Stafford to help. Please pray for both of them as they prepare to help out little Payton while I am gone. I have never left Payton for more than one night. This is going to be a big deal! Please pray for me as well.

CHEESE... just LOVE her!

In the mean time, I am staying busy at the church. I attend a women's bible study on Thursday mornings that is rocking my world. We are studying Kay Arthur's study titled "Covenant- God's Enduring Promises". HIGHLY recommend... so thankful to be learning and growing with other fellow women serving Christ. Payton and I attend and sometimes host a play group during the week. We love visiting with our friends the Stafford's, Kleemann's and Burris'. Of course Sunday's keep me busy while working with the children's ministry responsibilities, but I continue to be blessed by all those that serve our little ones! Josh and I are really starting to feel at home at PCC. God has been so good to us.

Payton's zombie walk... :)

Speaking of different involvements.... I am off to get some work done. Until next time we pray that God would bless you and keep you!!

Love- The Smiths

CONGRATS to my sister and NEW brother-n-law!!!

Mr. and Mrs. Thornberg

December 27, 2009

Smith Family Reunion

2009-09-18T17:43:00.000-07:00

Smith Family Update:

Payton playing with laundry... almost TEN MONTHS old!!

Wow... I am slacking on this blogging thing!! I had a goal to update the blog every Sunday but that has not happened as you can see. I have been very busy in my position at PCC. We are in recruitment season for the fall, and things are moving a long so slowly! In fact, we are down so many teachers that the past two Sundays we have had to cancel Sunday School. This has been a challenging time, however we know that God ultimately has a plan and we are seeking His face daily. So please keep PCC's Children Ministry in your prayers!

Since the last post we have had a lot going on. Josh's parents came for a visit, Jessica was in town for a short visit, we headed north to Maryland for a HUGE Smith Family Reunion, Payton had her first ear infection, I went and visited my nieces and nephew in Mississippi, my best friend had a baby and we are now in the process of trying to buy the house we have rented for four years! It has been an exciting time but overwhelming at the same time.

Let's start with Mississippi-- Payton, my mother, and I headed south to visit Kimberly, Tony, and my adopted nieces and nephew. Payton did amazing on her first airplane ride. She was not even phased! We had an amazing time visiting with Kimberly, Tony and the kids. They TOTALLY stole my heart. I am counting down the days till Christmas so that I can see them again. They loved Payton too! I also was able to enjoy listening to Kimberly leading worship at a women's conference at their church in Hattiesburg, MS. Tony gave an awesome message the Sunday we were there. Overall a wonderful trip! Only downside was that when we returned Payton got a cold and then an ear infection. We had several late nights, crazy rashes from medicine, and HIVES to boot!! Thankfully she really is a great baby and healed up quickly. Mommy just had a hard time seeing her little princess in pain. :(

hanging out with Titus (the dog), James, Payton and I

Watching Cinderella with my nieces and Payton!

Granny and Granddad Smith holding Payton

Granddad feeding Payton during our "BOURNE" marathon.

Josh's parents, Granny and Granddad's visit-- a week after our Mississippi visit Granny and Granddad came to town. We had a wonderful time hanging out, cooking together and playing with Payton. Payton adores both Granny and Granddad as do Max and Toby. The trip was over before we knew it but thankfully we were able to see them again when we headed up to Maryland for the Smith Family Reunion.

"My auntie loves me!"- Jessica and Payton

Jessica's pit stop visit-- Jessica arrived during Granny and Granddad's visit to VA. She was here on business plus there is a special someone that lives in VA that she also wanted to visit, and I am not talking about Payton. wink wink.... Anyhow... we saw her twice but for like three hours totally. It was nice... but short and sweet. We sure do miss our auntie and my little sis. Hopefully she'll be moving back to the mainland!

Josh's brother's family- Alaina, Garrett, Gabe, Alex and us

Taking a break during the Smith Family Reunion...

Payton LOVED the swing and cousin Kaitlin!

Granddad showing Payton around where he grew up...

Payton and I looking at where the Chesapeake Bay starts (we live at the end of it!)

Smith Family Reunion-- So we headed north to North East, MD. (about five hours from our home in Newport News, VA) We joined Josh's mom, dad, brother Alex, his wife Alaina and two boys Gabe and Garrett, sister Melissa, her hubby Tiger, and her FIVE children. We all stayed at the same hotel where we played cards till late at night and just had a blast! The family reunion was quick but a lot of fun. Seeing all of Josh's aunts, uncles, cousins was wild. Josh's dad is by far the handsome one out of the group (no offense to any Smith family members that read this). Payton enjoyed hanging out with her cousins, especially Kaitlyn... who seemed to make her laugh all the time. Adorable is all I can say!

adorable nieces and nephews; Caleb, Kirsten, Keirra, Connor & Kaitlin

MomMom and PopPop with all their GREAT GRANDCHILDREN!

(Payton is being held by big cousin, Kirsten)

Buying the house-- please be praying for us as we decide whether or not we can afford to buy the house we have been renting from my parents for four years. They have been amazing by allowing us to live here but we feel it's time we try and settle down here and take the house off my parents hands. The hard thing is the down payment requirments as well as the fact we are not able to recieve the tax credit because of the fact my parents on the house we are buying. Lovely how it makes you feel the government is anti-family at times. Anyhow... we really need lots of prayer over this big move. Please pray that we would listen to God during this process and not our own desires. THANKS!

Last but not least, AVA GRACE ROBINSON is here!! My high school friend, Kate "Swanstrom" Robinson gave birth to a BEAUITFUL baby girl on September 12, 2009. She was the EXACT measurements and weight as Payton. I think that this is super special! However, Kate was in labor for almost THRITY hours. CRAZINESS.... thankful both baby and mom are doing well. Can't wait to meet her.

So I am off to Washington, DC tomorrow with PCC's Children's Ministry Coordinator of Elementary age classes. We are attending curriculum training at Capitol Hill Baptist. I am very excited but annoyed that I have a cold. Anyhow... super excited to stay in DC but very nervous and sad that for the first time in almost TEN MONTHS I will be away from Payton. Daddy will be watching her in Newport News... however DC is too far for my liking. Please lift both Patti and I up during the conference, my nervousness as well as Josh as he takes care of little Payton. My heart hurts already but I know I have to face this sooner or later.

Well we hope everyone is doing well. Until next time... enjoy your family and eat some yummy pizza!

Melissa and kids....

2009-08-07T08:09:00.000-07:00

Cousin Kierra (4 Months) and Payton (8 Months)

Caleb, Kirsten, Payton, Kierra, Connor and Kaitlin (who wasn't feeling well)

Kaitlin is such a cutie!!

Yummy Dinner time....

Payton holding fruits of daddy's labor...

Sorry for the late post.... the weekend was packed and filled with wonderful new memories. Last week Josh and I stayed busy with finishing the fence and with my new job. I kept busy by hanging out with some great ladies from out church on Thursday evening. We had a wonderful time playing "get to know you games" and Pictionary. I ended up leaving early so that I could visit with my mom and dad briefly as they stopped by. They were in town visiting friends from Hawaii. Dad spent the night and Payton was able to hang out with her Pop Pop for a little bit the following morning. Then on Friday evening Josh, Payton and I attended a cookout with our home group (bible study) members at the Chan's home. It was wonderful seeing our friends after being apart this summer. After a few hot dogs we enjoyed playing some NERTS before having to head home to put Payton to bed.

Saturday we were super excited to Melissa and the kids visit. We have not seen much of the Rhoades family since our family grew as well as theirs. With Tiger in "Sin City" on busy... Melissa decided to come down for a quick visit. We made a yummy dinner together... homemade pizza and MORE hot dogs... lol. Then as I prepared for Sunday's crafts with Kaitlin's help... Connor, Kristen, Josh and Melissa played MORE NERTS! :) Once I completed my projects for church Kaitlin and Caleb joined me by snuggling together in my room while watching "Enchanted". Have a said yet how ADORABLE these kiddos are. We really do miss them! Kierra is FOUR months old now and is such a cutie pie. Payton enjoyed playing and laughing with her cousins.

Sunday I headed to church early to get things ready for the services and Josh stayed home with the kiddos and Melissa. It's my understanding that Uncle Josh made some nice waffles with bananas.... yum!! Once I returned from church we headed to Virginia Beach to visit the Aquarium there. What a blast we had!!! I really enjoyed looking at everything and watching Payton's expressions... priceless! After fighting traffic to get home... we popped in a movie and crashed! Melissa and the kiddos ended up leaving the next morning leaving Payton and I lonely! However, we had a fantastic time and can't wait til the next visit!

New Job....Family Ties...

2009-07-26T16:18:00.000-07:00

My amazing husband and daughter... hanging out!

Payton sun bathing.... (how do you rotate pictures on her??)

David Isaac, my nephew getting ready to go down a water slide in Stafford, VA... brave boy!

Payton loves mommies wallet... hanging out at the Mariner's Museum Summer Concert!

My adorable niece, Isabella on the 4th of July

PopPop with Payton and Isabella (Payton's cousin)

What a great week we had! Josh continued working on the fence which is almost finished. Hopefully by tomorrow it will be complete and not a minute too soon. Even this past week our oldest dog, Toby decided to sneak out the hole in the fence in the backyard. Needless to say, after yelling for him for a while and a few tears later he showed back up. I was so happy to see him back, that the little bugger didn't get in trouble. He was having a lucky day for sure!

This week I started my new job as the Children's Ministry Coordinator (Infants/Toddlers). What a blessing this week was with helping out at the church. I am extremely excited for the opportunity to meet and get to know people at Peninsula Community Chapel. Another ministry I am involved in is our mother outreach program, mom2mom. I am also very very excited for the fall and for what mom2mom will entail. Check out our new site: www.peninsulamom2mom.com

Thursday I was able to visit with my mom for a hot second before her cousin, Jane and Jane's family arrived. They crashed at our place Thursday night and then we were all off to my grandparents for the day to visit. My sister and her three children were there as well as my Aunt, Uncle, cousins, and cousins babies. It was one WILD, FUN FILLED day. We are very blessed with a wonderful family. Payton enjoyed hanging out with other kiddos as well.

Saturday night was pizza night and our buddy, Chris came over. We played some cards and had some laughs. If you have ever played the card game NERTS you'd understand. If not... Josh and I will have to show you how to play. Good Times! Saturday was also my sister, Kimberly's birthday. What a year she has had, she and her husband adopted four kids this year from the Ukraine. What a blessing this year has been for she and her husband, as well as our family! I am so thankful for her and hope she had a fantastic birthday, first birthday with her children. Memories.... :)

Well, on to another busy week. Until next Sunday evening... have an amazing week and God bless!

Good Times....

2009-07-19T18:57:00.000-07:00

Smith Family- Norfolk Botanical Gardens (Payton at four months)

Josh, Payton and I in front of Muller's Ice Cream Parlor in Chincoteague... YUMMY!!!

Payton playing on the beach in Chincoteague, VA (six months old)

Kate's baby shower.... best friends!! (Payton, me, Kate, and Calista)

Smith Family is now blogging....

2009-07-19T18:44:00.001-07:00

So I am not real big into blogging but figured since I look at my sister, Kim's blog everyday maybe I should start one for our family. Many of you may be wondering why we named our blog the way we did. I'll try and explain.... Josh and I have started trying to brainstorm different things we can do with Payton, kind of like weekly traditions. We have come up with two so far, homemade pizzas on Friday nights and ice cream treats on Sundays! This past Friday we made our first homemade pizza... we are SOLD! It was a lot of fun and is definitely cheaper than going out. As for ice cream on Sundays, that is easy and happens already.

Today was a big day for the Smith family. Josh started working on finishing the fence around our yard. I am so excited. Not only will I be able to let the dogs go out to do their business, but now I don't have to watch them or stand out in the rain or cold. Plus, when Payton starts running around it will be nice to have her safely placed in the backyard as we play!

This Sunday was also a big day for me. It is my last Sunday NOT on staff with the church we attend. Starting this week I start my NEW job. I am so thankful for God's continued support for our family. I will be overseeing the nursery and toddlers at our church. Basically I make sure the there are teachers, materials for that Sunday's lesson, oversee room setup, and more. I can also do most of my work from home if needed! God is so good!

We had a great couple of days with Vivian, my cousin. I especially enjoyed going out and seeing a chick flick, walking around the mall, and her prom dress fashion show. We miss her company already! Josh and I were also able to catch the new Harry Potter film. Great film as always but lacked the intensity I was hoping for since it was the sixth film (book) and the intense ending is approaching. I hope they pick it up in the next to films!

Well until next Sunday!!! Have a blessed week!